The things that be.

You owe it yourself to be happy!!

It may be quite disturbing how the things that happen turn out to be. Indeed life is a mystery,a mystery as wide and deep as the ocean- if not more than and a whole lot happens therein. When one talks about things that happen in life, HAPPINESS would not be far fetched. Well ask me! I would say happiness is something/a gift you have to give yourself regardless of the other person. Ah yes! Nobody is an island quite alright, we need one another to be happy- does not mean my happiness is in your hands or yours in mine. One is capable of being happy with or without the next person.

But humans! Some of us have become so wrecked and unstable emotionally that we think that without the other person we won't be able to attain happiness. No!! Ones happiness is not measured with the host of friends/people one crowds himself with because  it is not impossible to be in the midst of people and still feel lonely,lost and unhappy.

You need me, I need you quite alright, but that  does not mean that the absence  of the one will automatically bring about the extinct/absence of happiness in the other person's life. Being and staying happy is an individual "thing". It is a choice. You are happy- it is "you". You are unhappy- it is "you"

So which would it be?  Choose to be happy regardless.You owe it yourself to be happy.... You have to have it to radiate it...